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P-Spot Stimulation

“How can I learn to massage the P-spot on a man?”

For those who don’t know, the P-spot is about 2 inches (5cm) inside the anus against the front wall of the rectum. Pressing that spot compresses the prostate gland, which when done just right gives a delicious, sexual, gotta-pee-like feeling. Since the prostate stores semen, some can be squeezed out through the urethra even though the man doesn’t ejaculate. Sometimes, a man can orgasm from P-spot stimulation. That tends to be a bit different, a more full-body orgasm.

It does take some practice to massage the spot just right for maximum pleasure. A man can usually barely reach the spot with his own fingers. Some will use a tool such as a kitchen utensil with a blunt handle or a devise called Aneros.

However the best way to learn to massage the P-spot is to enlist the help of a volunteer. This can be a friend, coworker or family member. Anyone who might enjoy the pleasure without being geeked out about the possibility of encountering a little poop or thinking it is ‘gay’ in some sort of negative way.

As to poop, it usually doesn’t happen. The anal area is reasonably clean between poopings. One can also use rubber gloves, or an enema to clean the anal passage before engaging in P-spot stimulation. Playing with an enema can be enjoyable in its own right.

Aneros, available on Amazon

See also, Spots.

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PhD on No-Fap

I found this post on Quora, and thought it is well-worth quoting verbatim. It’s by Eugene Mormon who has a PhD in Theology from the Cypress Bible Institute

Young people typically “jump on bandwagons” and follow trends, and one of them, like most, was completely made up as a complete joke. The inventor of the “no fap” crap never took it seriously. Others made it into what it is now, a bunch of people making things up as they go along and pretending to have achieved some great accomplishment.

I’ve watched the same videos you speak of, people kissing their muscles, attributing them not to exercise but “no fap”. Others droning on about how masturbation was all they did, all day, all night, then “no fap” came along with the idea of going outside and talking to other people, and poof! magically, they start meeting new people! It wasn’t “no fap” that helped them meet new people, it was putting their penis down for five minutes and talking to other human beings instead of being in their mother’s basement masturbating for hours on end. I’ve seen the ones where one guy gibbered for an hour or so pretending to sound like a psychoanalyst, discussing some deep dark thing in one’s subconscious mind driving them to masturbate.

Some people have nothing else in life at all. Nothing to be proud of, no accomplishments of note, nothing that makes them stand out in the slightest. The idea of succeeding in overcoming a really powerful impulse is the peak of their lives. That IS something for them to brag about.

In the dark ages, there were tons of stupid things completely made up about masturbation, to a point of people reacting psychotically to masturbation, and making the people who made up these crazy things rich by buying their made up books, sadistic devices, and fake medicines. Some wasted good money on fake “clergy” “blessing” their children and “casting out the demons of masturbation” from them and so on. It was all a money-making scheme. In other countries, religious leaders made up complete nonsense about how masturbation will “harm” them and cause them to “lose their life force”, and with great irony endorsing beating the living shit out of their children for masturbation, supposedly to “prevent them from harm”!

The anti-masturbation freaks are far more harmful and have caused far more damage and misery than anything masturbation ever has. And people just keep making things up about it. Even in 2020, there still are crazed, mentally sick individuals that just keep making one idiotic thing after another up about it. It is their whole lives, OTHER PEOPLE’S CROTCHES. Could anything possibly be sicker? I mean, out of all the hobbies and sports and forms of entertainment available, they choose to obsess over other people’s crotches? And how to stop them from touching their own crotch?

To me, it’s a weird mental illness. It should be in the DSM and studied by medical and psychiatric professionals.

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Perfect Invention for Lesbians

I thought I came up with the perfect invention for lesbians and women with adventurous boyfriends, until my friend Spurtz told me it already exists.

The versions you can buy right now, one of which is shown above, are like strapless strap-ons. With the business end, you can penetrate your girlfriend’s pussy, or her anus, or your boyfriend’s anus, just like a strap on. But here’s where it gets interesting: You wear the other half inside your vagina, so while you’re thrusting, you get pretty much the same internal sensations a man would get. Not only that, but it appears to have a clit stimulator also.

Actually, I’m not clear whether the end you wear goes in your pussy or your anus. I would think pussy would be better and more realistic. Well, if this one isn’t right, there are several competing models on Amazon.

The version I invented was slightly different. I thought it might have inflatable components, so once inserted in yourself, you could pump it up for a super-snug fit. The other end could be separately inflated to maximize what your friend can accommodate.

The ones you can buy don’t do that, but I guess that’s not necessary. However, something I never thought of is what they do instead: They have integrated vibrators.

I believe some versions even have two separate vibrators, probably Bluetooth controlled, so you can feel one vibration intensity and pattern inside you, while your partner can experience a whole different sensation. If this version doesn’t do that, I’m guessing there are others on Amazon that do.

Have fun!

strapless strapon for lesbians and women with adventurous boyfriends
Available from Amazon

Available from Amazon

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Billie Eilish

Billie Eilish is our kind of hero!

In an April, 2024 interview with Rolling Stone, the famous singer she publicly stated some very bold things about her own interest in masturbation including:

“I should have a Ph.D. in masturbation.”

“Self-pleasure is an enormous, enormous part of my life, and a huge, huge help for me.”

“People should be jerking it, man. I can’t stress it enough, as somebody with extreme body issues and dysmorphia that I’ve had my entire life.”

She went on to talk about how she likes to get naked and wank in front of a mirror, “Partly because it’s hot, but it also makes me have such a raw, deep connection to myself and my body, and have a love for my body that I have not really ever had,” she said. “I got to say, looking at yourself in the mirror and thinking ‘I look really good right now’ is so helpful.”

“You can manufacture the situation you’re in to make sure you look good. You can make the light super dim, you can be in a specific outfit or in a specific position that’s more flattering. I have learned that looking at myself and watching myself feel pleasure has been an extreme help in loving myself and accepting myself, and feeling empowered and comfortable.”

What is Billie’s current sexual orientation?

“Dude, I’ve known people that don’t know their sexuality, or feel comfortable with it, until they’re in their forties, fifties, sixties.”

“I’ve been in love with girls for my whole life, but I just didn’t understand — until, last year, I realized I wanted my face in a vagina.”

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How We Managed Simultaneous Orgasm

My wife and I attempted simultaneous orgasm often, but never managed it early in our marriage. Of course we enjoyed practicing.

In time, we learned a couple of tricks that made simultaneous orgasm not only possible, but fairly easy to accomplish.

First, I had to overcome premature ejaculation. In time, I learned not only to hold off orgasm for a while, but to actually have dry orgasms, staying erect and aroused, and able to do it over and over again.

The second problem is that while my wife is very orgasmic in general, like many women she doesn’t often orgasm from ordinary intercourse. In the early years, after I’d cum in her, I would use my fingers or tongue to give her orgasms. We both enjoyed this very much.

Then, we figured out that she can orgasm from intercourse if we do it in doggie position. That means she’d get on her hands and knees, and I’d be on my knees behind her. Perhaps something about the angle of my penis within her in that position does the trick.

Putting the two together allowed us to reach our goal: Simultaneous orgasms.

One of the fringe benefits is that in the doggie position, I have a great view of her anus. When she orgasms, I see her asshole rhythmically contracting, which is a huge turn-on for me. If I’m otherwise going to be a bit late in orgasming, seeing that sends me over the edge.

See also Simultaneous Orgasm.

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G-Spot Stimulation

Try this, but understand it won’t work every time with every woman. However, if you are gentle and caring, almost all will enjoy your effort.

Once she is ready, which means after lots of foreplay which might involve kissing, massage then possibly clit licking (, you may notice that her inner labia have widened. She may also have some wetness in her vaginal area. This is a generalization. Most women are slower to ‘warm up’ than men, so foreplay is a good idea. Also, everyone is somewhat different in their physiology.

You can also feel free to communicate. When the mood is right, and you let her know that you intend to stimulate her G-spot, she may be very receptive. More so than if you were to just jump right in.

So, when the time is right, introduce a well-lubed finger slowly into her vagina. Once she’s used to that, put in two fingers. Now, get in a position where you can curl your two fingers upward against the front wall of her body just above the vaginal opening. So, your fingers are in her, and curved up and forward. If you lightly stroke the area, it should feel kind of rough like lots of little ridges on her inner surface sort of like soft fish scales. Experiment with depth, position and pressure letting her know she is welcome to tell you what works for her and what does not.

In time, she may have an amazingly strong orgasm that may be better than any clitoral orgasm she’s ever had. Or maybe not. Go in with no expectations, and you may be pleasantly surprised. When a woman does have such an orgasm it is as delightful, or maybe even more delightful for you than when you have your own orgasm.

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Therapeutic Testicle Squeezing

This came from the AI component of Bing:

Squeezing the testes serves various purposes related to male reproductive health. Let’s explore why it’s important:

Testosterone Production:

The testes are responsible for producing the male sex hormone testosterone. Squeezing or massaging the testicles can stimulate blood flow and enhance the function of Leydig cells, which secrete testosterone1.

Adequate testosterone levels are crucial for secondary male characteristics (such as facial hair, body hair, and muscle mass), libido, sexual function, and fertility.

Sperm Production:

Squeezing the testes can indirectly impact sperm production. The testes are where sperm cells are produced through a process called spermatogenesis.

Proper blood flow and temperature regulation (which squeezing can help with) ensure optimal conditions for sperm development.

Scrotal Health:

The scrotum, which houses the testes, needs proper blood circulation and temperature control.

Squeezing or gently massaging the testicles can promote blood flow, prevent stagnation, and maintain a healthy scrotal environment.

Sensitivity Enhancement:

Squeezing the testicles can enhance sensitivity. Circular motion or gentle pressure can stimulate nerve endings in the scrotum.

Some techniques, like the stop-squeeze technique, can also be used to delay orgasm and manage premature ejaculation2.

Testicular Stretching:

Some individuals practice scrotum stretching to achieve a low-hanging appearance. While this is not a primary health concern, it can be done with caution.

Scrotum stretching involves using devices like leather straps, steel rings, or rubber rings to gradually stretch the scrotal skin over time.

Remember that maintaining healthy testicles and overall reproductive health should be the priority.

In summary, while squeezing the testes directly impacts testosterone and sperm production, it’s essential to balance any stretching or massaging practices with overall well-being and medical advice. Always consult a healthcare professional for personalized guidance.

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Male Faking and Detection

I was asked, “How can men fake orgasms?”

Although that’s a rather nebulous question, here’s my answer, followed by an answer to the obvious next question: “How can you detect whether a man is really orgasming?”

If you’re having intercourse it’s easy. A woman generally can’t tell whether you have ejaculated in her or not. Just tighten your muscles and carry on as if you’re having an orgasm. Same for anal sex. People can’t generally tell whether you came.

In other situations, such as masturbating in front of friends, you could hold a towel or wad of tissue in front of your penis pretending that your orgasming, maybe adding a thrust or two, then quickly throw it away before they have a chance to inspect for actual cum.

This may be more difficult if you’re having trouble getting erect.

If you’re being filmed, you could fill a squirt bulb, a squirt gun, or some sort of small bladder-like device with some milk. Hold it behind your penis so it doesn’t show, then squeeze it at the right time.

As someone else mentioned, dry orgasms are of course easy to fake, but most people, both male and female don’t know what dry orgasms are and won’t believe they’re possible.

However, they are quite possible although they usually take some practice. The big advantage is you can go ahead and enjoy your orgasm, but you won’t ejaculate. Nothing will come out. You can learn how to do it at Dry Orgasm.

Or yet another option is to decide whether you really need to fake the orgasm. Maybe you can just go ahead and cum. Wouldn’t that be fun in the right circumstances?

What about knowing whether a man has orgasmed or is faking? If he’s jerking off it’s pretty obvious when you see cum spurting out of him. But what if he’s dry orgasming, or his prick is buried in someone’s vagina? Well, if you must know whether he orgasmed, keep a close watch on his taint also known as his perinium, the area btween his scrotum and anus. The prostate gland is in that area, and the muscles around the prostate and urethra will contract rhythmically. You can usually see the contractions in that area.

This is something I like to point out when I’d demonstrating dry orgasming. I tell people to watch, or even put a finger on my perinuim in order to feel my urethral contractions.

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Weird Question About Masturbation Habit Answered

How should I come out of my masturbation habit?

Maybe instead you should come out ABOUT your masturbation habit. If you were to admit to discrete friends, family or coworkers that you have a masturbation habit, they may surprise you by telling you that they do too. Most people do. Then, you might find out that there are actually many benefits to masturbation ( Although it can become addictive, it usually isn’t. Many people take a few minutes to wank at least once a day, and sometimes several times a day. Not only do they lead perfectly successful lives, they may be more successful than those who are constantly horny, unfocused and frustrated because they won’t allow themselves to masturbate.